tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5626862461061593376.post6083437049082454382..comments2023-08-24T03:59:13.170-07:00Comments on Christian Safehouse: The Gypsy Child Goes on a Quest to BelongAbout Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11750216202890211361noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5626862461061593376.post-66249827109402882192009-08-13T09:06:20.457-07:002009-08-13T09:06:20.457-07:00Huh!
For once in my life, I say to you ... ya got...Huh!<br /><br />For once in my life, I say to you ... ya got me cold.About Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11750216202890211361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5626862461061593376.post-88824573467687502512009-08-13T08:50:43.896-07:002009-08-13T08:50:43.896-07:00..Heidi.."your therapy is going nowhere".....Heidi.."your therapy is going nowhere" -(Hannabil Lector) :) ...your anger at Brent is SECONDARY (displaced)..By ASSOCIATION...you hate him for removing you from loving friends in georgia in the same manner your parents frequently uprooted you from your cherished childhood friends..you re-experience the grevious wound of upheavel inflicted by unthinking parents....since the anger and rage at your parents remains suppressed there is somewhat of a danger present that you will permanently "shift" or project the repressed subconscious anger onto your husband(who represents your father)...this may already have occured .....become aware of your "Defense Mechanisms"=Unconscious strategies for avoiding or reducing threatening feelings..(shopping anyone?)... "Defense mechanisms allow negative feelings to be lessened without an alteration of the situation that is producing them, often by distorting the reality of that situation in some way. While they can help in coping with stress, they pose a danger because the reduction of stress can be so appealing that the defenses are maintained and become habitual" .....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com